Flirting tips for men…

As far as flirting is concerned, men are close to being pathetic. Lets be honest here, guys, we know we have yet to master the art of flirting. Well, here are a few useful tips to help you by.

Girls watch your body and listen to what you are speaking

This is very important. Therefore, you will have to learn how to maintain a good posture and what your posture conveys. Besides that, starting from where your eyes are to what you are saying, it all matters. Read on and find out how.

Let your posture communicate

It is important to keep a good posture. You can stick your chest out while arching your back. Do not overdo it though. Do not stand any farther than about 2 feet from your girl. You do not want to encroach upon her space while also making sure you are standing closer than where you normally might.

Keep an open position

Do not cross arms or even put hands in pockets. These are close positions and you do not want her to think you are not interested. Alternatively, you can do a little test. Take a step back. Watch if she does the same. If she follows you then she’s definitely in.

Flirt with your eyes

You can give her potent “stares of desire.” You can even have her heart go racing by giving her a naughty lusty stare. If you happen to walk by some girl who you like, then give her a 3-4 second stare. Now, glance away slowly. It is important to be slow. As you are starting to look away, smile. She will understand.

Be careful with the touch

Men always have to be careful in this area. While it is alright to touch the girl’s arm or shoulder while talking, you do not want to overdo it.

Be confident

Girls like their guys to go for what they desire. Do not act like a frightened puppy. If she is looking great, tell her. She’ll love it.

Talk sensible

If you are doing the right thing in all the above then what you speak will not matter so much. However, keep away from anything too serious keep the talk light. You can flatter her and complement her on her appearance or even on how well she performed on the oral report or a good game. You can playfully tease her. Simply send out the right signals.

Some mental cues

Be sure to look confident. It matters a lot. Feel in control and do not show you are nervous. A secure and confident man is certainly a turn on.

Being in a positive frame of mind and being full of energy is necessary to be effective as a flirt.

Clueless on your first date? Some ideas…

If you are worried about where you should go for a first date, then stop worrying and read on. Think creatively and then decide where you would like to go for your first date. I always like to think about new ideas, so here are some for you.

Instead of trying to go for something that any one of you already does or enjoys, you can be adventurous and try something absolutely new. It will mark the beginning of your relationship with excitement and adventure.

Everybody goes for a dinner or movie, why not something else. Here are some great ideas.

Skydiving

If both of you are not afraid of heights then, both of you should try this one. What could be more exciting or exhilarating than standing together in the door of an open plane, ready to jump? It has loads of adventure along with a unique romantic appeal to it. Call your local airport and see if they can help you with this.

Hookah Cafes

If you have never tried Middle Eastern cuisine or the hookah, then this is surely worth a try. If either of you is health conscious then you might not enjoy this, however, it works well for a first date. The atmosphere is typically cozy and laid back. You can smoke hookah, enjoy delicious coffee, eat a little and have a great conversation.

Art galleries or conventions

If you love art, then this is the place to be. You can even read up a little on the art exhibited and impress your date with your knowledge. You can walk around appreciating art while the music plays on. It can be really romantic and appealing to an art lover.

Live comedy

You can even hit your local comedy club. You can treat yourself with some good laughs and that will also work as a great ice breaker for you.

Wine tasting

If you have close access to vineyards, then take a tour or go for wine tasting. It can be really fun. Sipping some great wines can be a great way to have a nice conversation. Besides, the ambience of a beautiful vineyard will work wonders for you.

Scuba diving

Now, if you live near a beach, then what could be more fun than scuba diving? Go for a dive in the water, admire the sea life and follow it up with a great dinner on the seaside. These are the ingredients of true romance.

Book signings or Poetry readings

Anybody will love to listen to poetry and so these make nice first dates. If you want to take a step further, you can even read a piece yourself at the poetry reading. This will certainly score you some points. You can go for book signings even if you are not an avid reader in particular. You can make some decent conversation over coffee and also enjoy the dramatic reading by the author.

Dating advice for men

If you think only women worry about whether or not a man will like her or approve of her, then you are wrong. Men also share the same fears when you talk about dating. Most men find women to be complicated and too hard to understand and that is also part of the reason why they like women.

Nevertheless, it would be so great if only somebody would give them a manual on women. Well, there is no such book and there never will be. However, what I can offer you is some useful advice while dating.

Here are some hints or advice that you might find useful to remember if you are in a dating relationship or if you looking to find a date.

When you go out on a date, please take some time to clean yourself. It is not that you are dirty. However, when you are going out for the first time with someone then you surely want to make a good example. A dirty looking man is certainly not very attractive to most women.

The first rule is never to be late. Plan beforehand so that you can avoid any emergencies. Being late will only give her an impression that you are not very interested or that you do not take her seriously, trust me, you do not want a woman to think that.

Although women of today are much more ambitious and want to recognised as equals, most women still love their men to be chivalrous to them. After all, opening a door for her or pulling a chair for her will not hurt; it will only give her the impression that you are a gentleman.

While they might not show it a lot, women love to be complimented. Do not over do it. Be subtle, while still making her feel that you have something for her.

Make a genuine effort to listen to her talking. Women can tell if you are genuinely interested in talking with them or not. Therefore, talk to her and when she is talking take interest. You can show interest by asking her questions in between.

Go prepared. Find out a little about her. Plan how you are going to initiate the conversation and even plan what you will do if something goes wrong.

Even if you feel too interested in her, do not bring up any adult topics or any sex toys for a minimum of three dates. Believe me, it will work to your benefit.

When the time comes to pay, offer to make the payment. However, in case she insists, suggest splitting the bill between the two of you.

Whether or not you should kiss, depends on the circumstances. You will have to make the decision yourself.

Remember, if she is the right woman, you will strike it.